Plenty of wrong ones

Looking for the perfect formula of words that will support and lift and there is no 'right' thing to say that I cannot turn over in my head and say 'trite', 'too easy to misconstrue' and 'trite' again. No, no perfected sentence that will ease, comfort or empower.

But plenty of wrong ones.

Opportunities to stand foot in mouth, or rather, wobble on one leg.